Thursday, January 27, 2011

Totally Rad 80's Wedding

The 1980s, often called "the Eighties," was the decade that began on January 1, 1980 and ended on December 31, 1989 and was the ninth decade of the 20th century.
The Marriage of the Decade
- In 1981, the royal wedding took place at Buckingham Palace in London, England. Prince Charles married a kindergarten teacher named Diana Spencer. This woman was very lucky to have all of those people watching her get married. It was an unbelievable sight at the palace. The queen had a new daughter-in-law, Princess Diana. During the 80's, there were many fads and fashions. For fashion, there was the power suit (for women), Reebok shoes, Rayban sunglasses, and the "yuppie look". If you ever saw your parents wearing "the yuppie look", you would probably die of laughter. As of right now, both Reebok shoes and Rayban sunglasses are still in style. Today, Reeboks are made for men, women, children, and babies But, the Reebok company doesn't only make shoes. They now also make merchandise such as clothes and backpacks. Also, women wore layers of socks, lots of bracelets, pegged pants (a specific way of folding the bottom of your pants), and BIG HAIR, which is now called "mall hair." The C.D. has really changed America. The compact disc was invented in 1980 and is used for many different thingsEntertainment was a very popular thing in the 80's. There were some great movies, such as Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom, Batman, and E.T. Indiana Jones is a movie staring Harrison Ford, whom also played in the 1970's successful movie series, "Star Wars." Indiana Jones was a series of movies about a detective who went on many dangerous adventures to find someone or something. Batman was a movie about the super hero "Batman" and his evil villains. They were always on a mission to stop the villans from acting badly and saving humans. Batman sequals are still being made today. E.T. was about an alien from outer space who came down to Earth was found by a young boy. He and his sister, the very popular Drew Barrymore, kept E.T. as a secret and introduced him to "Earthling" lifestyles. These are all classic movies that people still enjoy today.Some famous television series in 1980's were both comedies, The Cosby Show and Cheers. Cheers was a very successful show about a group of friends in Boston who sat together at a bar and talked about "real-life" issues. The Cosby Show, starring the famous Bill Cosby, was about a large African American family who also dealt with everyday life situations and decisions. Many people still enjoy watching repeats of The Cosby Show and Cheers on T.V.Other entertainment in the 80's was the famous singer, Michael Jackson and the award winning book, Sarah Plain and Tall. Micheal Jackson has produced and sang more award-winning songs, videos, and performed at the most sold-out concerts than any other musician. The 80's were most definitely a fun, exciting, and entertainment packed decade.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Expensive Weddings ???? WHY ????

Why do people break the bank to have a 30 min ceremony and 3 hr reception ?

As We Have Seen There Are 5 Hot Wedding Trends For 2011 #1 Vintage # 2 Echo-Friendly #3 Modern Choices #4 Do It Yourself #5 Social/ Media Influence. My lens focus this lens will focus on Do it yourself Weddings
Do it yourself" Originally brought on by the economy, this trend is here to stay because it not only saves money, but also adds a special something to the big day. Personalized touches and little details are very important; couples are incorporating their favorite interests, hobbies, places and even sports. My question now is why are brides breaking the bank ? We needed to wait this long until the economy took a dive to realize we should save money and adds a personality to your special day? When people look at a happy bride and groom of modest means throwing a wedding bash that would make Prince William jealous, people - remarking how impressed they are with the couple.We'll .. Not me. I always look at such financially delusional newlyweds and think this: stupid, stupid,stupid .I have to say , is there anything more stupid than people of modest means throwing hard-earned money away on an opulent yet fleeting wedding reception when they'd be better served having a more modest affair and using some of the money saved for things like O' lets see .. Maybe money towards a new house, one heck of a honeymoon to remember, an investment , or shoot ... since they want to throw it away ... maybe help feed world hunger, get homeless of the streets, invest in small businesses and help grow a job market.. Ok .. Ok.. I am not talking about your millionaire who wants to impress there social market. But come on .. Even they are being ridiculous. I am talking about your average families who work hard for there money, maybe mommy and daddy struggled to build there small empire , or even your and your spouse to be. Is it really worth it to break the bank? Put a mortgage on the house, run up credit card debt , sell your soul for this few hours of your life ? I do not deny any woman a day to be a princess but there are so many ways to make it happen without spending $60,000 .. Add all the brides who spent $10,000 and up and how much was wasted . Add in your head by hundreds or even thousands of couples that have done it . Just stupid, stupid,stupid,! For all of future brides- and grooms-to-be, one of the worst things you can do is blow a big chunk of your savings on a big fat expensive wedding. Maybe i am just to cheap or maybe i am just to smart. But i would never spend a huge amount of money on one day. Not even if i was a millionaire. I will not spend over $5,000 even in my client paid me to.. Nope.. will not do it ! There is no need... I have planned beautiful weddings that turned out as beautiful as any other wedding for $1,700 that is from the place, to gown, to everything needed right down to the small details. ( Nothing Used .. It Was All Brand New ) I feel family and friends should pull together in this type of event. What happened to spending time and helping family and friends anyway? Where in our lives did we allow ourselves to be to busy to even be apart of our loved ones lives? What a perfect time to come together and be creative , express some imagination and put some heads to together and donate some time and effort into our loved ones. Learn , research , plan, use your resources to make your dream come true in every way possible but just be smart and creative with your choices. You can cut the cost in half with a little hard work and patience. I myself find resources all the time . dollar stores, bargain stores, outlets, thrift shops, bulk buying , favor outlets, Craigslist, the possibilities are endless. No matter what you spend on your wedding . It is all about the details. Pay attention to every detail and your day will be more than a wedding it will be a life time memory for you and your guests.

Tim Burton's 'The Nightmare Before Christmas' is both a classic Halloween film and somehow twisted extremely romantic movie.

Pumpkin King Jack Skellington. He's been making Halloween happen for many years and is quite good at it. But he's bored and restless, thinking there has to be more. In his obsession he doesn't even notice Sally, the raggedy patchwork girl sewn together by a mad scientist, who is also restless - and longs for Jack's attention constantly.Everything gets strange when Jack wanders off and eventually discovers another town in another corner of their enchanted forest, the town where they make Christmas. He brings back a few of the tchotchkes hoping to understand the warmth that lies in the hearts of this wintry town, but he just doesn't get it.From there, Jack tries to make Christmas for himself, right there in Halloween town, and chaos naturally ensues. Once they kidnap Santa Claus the disaster comes naturally. In the end it's Sally that puts everything right - and finally gets Jack's attention. It is a love story, after all.

Wedding Hair Traditional... or Daringly Different?

It's the most romantic day of your life and certainly one of the most important. A day that is all about you and your loving partner, a day that will be looked back upon and celebrated again and again throughout the rest of both of your lives. And you want to look absolutely stunning ..
It's best to first decide which is more important to you, a certain hairstyle you've always dreamed of wearing on your wedding day, or the style of bridal veil you've had your heart set on wearing. The hair style you choose and your wedding veil must work well together and making this happen can sometimes be a formidable task if not planned well ahead of time. Once you've decided with which to start you can work with your designer or hair stylist to complete the look. If you have first chosen a veil, take it to your stylist at least a couple months before the wedding and work with them to create a bridal hairstyle that complements both you and your headpiece. Keep in mind that you don't want to do anything drastic like cutting, perming or dying your hair so close to your wedding that there isn't time to correct mistakes beforehand. If you are planning a big change do it early enough to leave time to make adjustments if you need to.If you know your dream wedding hair style, have your stylist do your hair in the same style the morning of the day you are planning to shop for your veil. This way you can easily decide what style of headband or tiara design, and length and style of veil, will work best with your hairstyle.

Lady And The Tramp Wedding

This is a Disney movie which is a perfect Fairytale Wedding Theme because it is about two dogs falling in love. These dogs also come from different worlds; Lady is a pedigree and Tramp is a mutt. Also, it has one of the most romantic scenes of the two dogs sharing a plate of spaghetti and kissing when they eat the same


Lady is a snooty Cocker Spaniel from a high-class neighborhood. Tramp is a street-smart mongrel from the wrong side of the tracks. But when their mouths inadvertently come together on the same strand of spaghetti, it's pure magic. How these two pooches come to dine at a little Italian café is a storyline straight out of vintage Hollywood. Beloved by her owners, Lady gets short shrift when a human baby arrives on the scene. Things go from bad to worse a few months later when her owners head off on a trip and the ill-tempered Aunt Sarah arrives to babysit, bringing along two chaos-causing Siamese cats. When Lady gets blamed for their shenanigans, she finds herself in the doghouse, then on the run, where she encounters the rascal Tramp.

Thursday, January 13, 2011

The History of the Wedding Ring – A Recognizable Symbol of Love

The wedding ring, that most famous and instantly recognizable symbol of the
(hopefully perpetual) joining of a man and a woman as husband and wife in the
institution of marriage, has a long, wide spread and mysterious history. Its
beginnings lie in the deserts of North Africa, where the ancient Egyptian
civilization sprang up along the fertile flood plains of the river Nile. This
river was bringer of all fortune and life to the Pharaoh’s people and from
plants growing on its’ banks were the first wedding rings fashioned. Sedges,
rushes and reeds, growing alongside the well-known papyrus were twisted and
braided into rings for fingers and larger bracelets for wrists.

The ring is of course a circle and this was the symbol of eternity for the
Egyptians as well as many other ancient cultures. It had no beginning and no
end, like time. It returned to itself, like life; and the shape was worshipped
in the form of the Sun and the Moon. The hole in the center of the ring is not
just space either; it is important in its own right as the symbol of the
gateway, or door; leading to things and events both known and unknown.

It is not difficult therefore, to see how the ring and the gift of a ring
began to be associated with love, in the hope that this most worthy of emotions
could take on the characteristics of the circle and capture eternity.

They wore it like we do today, on the third finger of the left hand, because
of a belief that the vein of that finger directly traveled from the heart. This
legend was later taken up by the Greeks, when they conquered Egypt under the
generalship of Alexander the Great in 332 B.C. and from them passed onto the
Romans, who called this the ‘vena amoris’, which is Latin for ‘the vein of
love’.

These early rings usually lasted about a single year before wear and tear
took their inevitable toll. Hemp was probably the first choice, but some decided
that they wanted a longer lasting material, and opted for leather, bone or ivory
to craft their token of love.
The Art of Metallurgy Takes Over

When in later years, the arts of metallurgy became known this naturally took
over, but surprisingly only very gradually. These early metal rings were often
quite clumsily made and uneven in the extreme, so for wedding gifts they had
precious and semi-precious stones set into them and these can be seen
represented by hieroglyphs in Egyptian tombs. At this time Jewellery was usually
more for show than sentiment and used to express wealth. Before coinage gold
rings were used for currency and often hidden away until the owners were
actively trading.

In early Rome it was iron that was adopted as the metal of choice rather than
copper or brass as mostly elsewhere. This symbolized the strength of love a man
felt for his chosen woman, though rust was a problem.

The act of giving and acceptance of the ring was now also considered to be
legally binding and therefore enforceable. This tied the woman as the property
of the man to some views but in truth also protected her rights as bride-to-be,
and was summoned upon to prevent her from having her primary position usurped by
rivals.

Gold or silver rings were given on occasions, to show all the bridegroom
trusted his betrothed with his valuable property, and to symbolize this further,
the ring was sometimes shaped as a key rather than a normal circular band. This
was not presented at the wedding ceremony as the custom nowadays, but when he
carried her in his arms across the threshold of her new home.

After coinage gold was rapidly promoted to first choice and later in
medieval Europe gemstones were again a common addition. With rubies chosen for
their color of red like a heart, sapphires, blue like the sky above, or most
valued and sought after of all; the indestructible diamond.

In renaissance Italy silver made a comeback, and was now selected for the new
idea of the engagement, or betrothal ring. These were often highly ornate and
usually inlaid with niello, (which is a very decorative form of enamel
engraving, colored in black to stand in contrast to the bright metal) on a round
or oval bezel. And rather than traditional simple bands, they had clasping hands
emerging from the hoop at the front.

Silver became more pre-eminent briefly in the seventeenth century in England
and France when they were widely used for wedding rings at the height of the
fashion for poesy, or posy rings; this comes from the word ‘poesy’ meaning a
‘love poem’. They were sentimentally inscribed with such, around the wedding rings,
either within or without, and often faith and hope were included in the verse as
well. These were highly popular indeed, as frequent referrals to them in the
works of Shakespeare prove. Gold however, began to take over again later, and
pushed back silver to the Italian idea of engagement again, with a golden
duplicate of the original replacing it on the wedding day.
Bad Luck if it's Not Made of Gold

Indeed, it was thought in Irish folklore to be bad luck or even illegal to be
married with a ring made of anything but gold. But this was never so in
actuality and, like elsewhere many different metals were used. A gold ring
though, was often provided for weddings throughout Europe for those who could
not afford one, (and immediately reclaimed afterwards).

Other world superstitions include the absolutely essential point of making
sure the ring is a perfect fit, for woe betides the future of the marriage if it
isn’t. A too-tight ring might point to painful jealousy or the stifling of one
party by the other. Too loose, and a parting of the ways through careless acts
or forgetfulness is indicated as a future danger to watch for.

The Church of England holds no brook with this however, and does not concern
itself with the size or material of the ring so long as it is there. An irony,
and a change of heart for sure, as the early Protestant puritans claimed that
wedding rings were pagan and not to be used by the Godly. They were further
enraged on the subject by a Catholic legend that Joseph and Mary had used one
constructed either of onyx or amethyst; and that various churches in Europe had
throughout history claimed to hold the ring (which was capable of performing
miracles) to attract pilgrims to their vicinity to spend money and hence
increase the wealth of the competing abbeys.

Today, almost all Christians accept the wedding ring, (a notable exception to
this being the Quakers), doubtlessly helped by the christianization of the old
vena amoris tale. Whereby in middle ages England, the bridegroom would slip the
ring part way up and then down his bride’s thumb, then first and middle finger,
reciting: ‘In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost’ as he touched
each one before fixing it in place on the next finger in line; the third finger
of the left hand.
Why the Left Hand?

Well, in some parts of continental Europe it is and always
has been the right. There doesn’t seem to be any particular reason that the
Christians should have mostly kept this the same as the original. But one
thought is; as the man, facing his bride, reaches straight out with his right
hand (most people are right handed) he naturally touches her left. As she does
his, as now, with more and more men wearing one also, when the rings are
exchanged.

This is a modern practice begun mostly during the second world war, a
consequence of increased numbers of men being separated from their loved ones
and seeking a cheering reminder. This almost happened earlier in history, with
the advent of the gemmal ring, alternatively spelled gimmal or gimmel. This was
two or three decidedly ornamental links, usually with hands and hearts or knots,
fastened together by a hinge, or interlocking like the Olympic rings, and being
capable of joining into one. At betrothal, they would be separated, with one
given to the woman, one kept by her lover, and if present, the third held by a
witness until the wedding day when all would be reunited and henceforth kept by
the bride.

Back to fingers though, and the thumb briefly challenged the accepted norm in Elizabethan days as fashionable ladies deemed to wear their wedding rings there, but this did not last and so today it is as it was in the beginning, just like a circle really, or a ring.
About The Author

Matt Jacks is an affordable freelance writer providing tips and advice for consumers purchasing diamond wedding rings and bands, traditional wedding ring sets and wedding dresses and gowns. His numerous articles offer moneysaving tips and valuable insight on typically confusing topics.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

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IS He Ready To Commit ?

Many women have been dreaming about the day they will get married since they were little girls. But, for men, this dream seems to come to fruition later in life. When a man gets serious with a woman, he may start thinking about marriage. There are certain signs a man may show when he's ready to wed his girlfriend.

History
1. When a woman has been in a relationship with a man for a certain period of time, he may start discussing their future together. He may start saying "we" more than he says "I" when talking about his plans. He may even start discussing serious issues with you, such as having a family, financial issues and more. This is a sign that he is considering marriage and wants to make sure that the two of you are on the same page with issues you'll have to deal with once you are married.
Significance
2. If a man always says that he loves you, is in love with you and would love to spend the rest of his life with you, that is significant and a good sign that he wants to get married--and that he wants to marry you. He may start spending more time with you (if he doesn't already), paying attention to the things that you like to do and surprising you with romantic nights out or romantic things in general, such as roses.
Time Frame
3. As many men get older, they start to think about settling down and getting married. They may keep bringing up how their mothers continuously ask them when they are going to settle down, how many of their friends are getting married or are married, or they may just start saying how they want to settle down with someone soon and start a family.
Considerations
4. Sometimes men may show little to no signs that they want to get married. You may not notice the subtle changes or hints he is giving off that he is ready to take your relationship to the ultimate level. If this is the case, and if you are really interested in finding out if he wants to get married, you could always ask him. Asking if your boyfriend ever wants to marry you can be tricky and you should consider the timing of that question. You could also just ask your boyfriend if he has ever considered getting married. This is an easier way to break the ice about the issue. Instead of asking about marriage specifically, you can also ask questions about the future and see how he reacts, such as "Do you want to have kids in the future?"
Theories/Speculation
5. Women and relationship experts can speculate all day about the signs that a man will show when he wants to get married. But, every man and every relationship is different. A woman in a relationship won't really know for sure that a man is ready to get married until he gets down on bended knee, with an engagement ring, and asks her.


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Wedding Bouquet

Have you ever wondered why orchids are such a popular flower for a wedding bouquet? They are seen at most wedding venues these days and never seem to go out of fashion. You can find them at your local florist or even order them online. Because of their resilience these beautiful flowers will not lose their freshness if you have them sent to you. It is good to order them overnight so they arrive a day before the wedding. You can also pick them up yourself at your local florist.

There are several reasons for their popularity. Here are seven:

• They mean something: Throughout history different flowers have symbolized different meanings. The orchid symbolizes fertility in China and in many countries around the world this flower means love, beauty and wealth. The ancient Greeks considered the flower to signify virility.
• Variety of colors: these royal flowers come in many different hues. They can be solid colors or combinations of hues. There is a color to match any wedding theme. They range from pure white, to unique spring green and everything in between.
• Long lasting: these flowers will last a week if given the proper care. This is useful as they can be bought a couple of days in advance and still stay fresh and beautiful for the big day.
• They have a beautiful scent: some are a little stronger than others so it is best to choose some with a milder scent for your bouquet. Be careful if you are allergic to pollen not to select one of the kinds that have a really strong scent, or you might have to toss your bouquet to the next bride early.
• They are resistant to extreme temperatures. Orchids are a good choice for weddings because they do not wilt if it is very hot or cold. This means they will remain fresh and elegant throughout the celebration.
• Lend themselves to photos: these flowers look very elegant in photos and will make your wedding pictures really special.
• Many varieties: You can make your bouquet traditional or modern with these flowers as there are so many varieties and colors to choose from. White orchids make very traditional and elegant bouquets. On the other hand deep purple and pinks make lend themselves to more contemporary weddings.

From these seven points you will see that there are many reasons to choose these elegant flowers for your orchid wedding bouquets. It is no surprise given these facts that this flower has become such a popular item in a wedding bouquet.

Vintage Weddings 6 Easy Style Ideas

It doesn't take a time machine -- or a fortune -- to get the vintage wedding of your dreams. Here are a few simple ideas to give your big day some old-fashioned flair.
Picture This

Take a cue from the romance greats by staging engagement photos like iconic movie scenes. Check out Roman Holiday, Casablanca, Meet Me in St. Louis, and Gone With The Wind for inspiration, then hire a photographer and start posing like Audrey and Bogie. Use the photos on your save-the-dates or set them up at reception tables.
Send a Message

Throwback stationery styles, like letterpress printing and tea-stained papers, can instantly enrich your invitations with nostalgic charm. Another idea is to design the invite to look like a telegram or an old Hollywood marquee (check a website like Chisholm-Poster.com for inspiration). Complete the look with a wax seal and a stamp of your monogram.
Add Accessories

Dress up your bridal party in accessories like pillbox hats, birdcage veils, and Art Deco jewelry for instant vintage glamour. Small capes or stoles will help them keep warm at a fall or winter wedding, and pretty parasols make adorable spring and summer accessories.
Make It Sparkle

Extend the romantic glitz into your decor. Pin vintage brooches to your escort cards. Arrange small hatboxes on tables for a centerpiece. You can even place a few antique trunks around your reception space -- throw some cushions on top to create eclectic seating for guests who take a break from the dance floor.
Lace It Up

Intricate lace can give almost anything a vintage touch. Mimic your dress' lace pattern in unexpected places, like in the fondant icing of your wedding cake or the edging of your invitations. To avoid flashbacks of your kindergarten valentines, streamline the look by using a piece of lace as a stencil: Simply place an extra strip of lace on the paper, paint over it, and remove the fabric to reveal the pattern on your invites or escort cards.
Keep It Simple

When it comes to vintage wedding decor, less is more. Muted colors, scores of candles and greenery, and maybe a glittery chandelier or two are really all you need to create a romantic atmosphere that harkens back to simpler times. If you can't resist a little kitsch, arrange antique knickknacks, like salt and pepper shakers or perfume bottles, on tables for a quirky-but-charming touch.